I was out of town all weekend, and thought of you often. I am sending you all the healing, good thought juju I can find. Take care of each other.
Posted by: sophie at May 15, 2006 04:23 PMmerde. i'm so sorry, love.
Posted by: becky at May 15, 2006 02:38 PMI can't say anything that hasn't already been said, but I'm thinking about you and am here if you need anything.
Posted by: kitty at May 14, 2006 08:35 PMF*ck... I am so sorry.
Posted by: Lee at May 14, 2006 04:07 PMI'm so sorry, I really wanted this to be different for you xx
Posted by: Gill at May 14, 2006 09:30 AMI'm so sorry.
Posted by: Milenka at May 14, 2006 02:30 AMAAwwww! my deepest condolences.
Posted by: J.m at May 14, 2006 12:07 AMOh no.
We all love you so much and are rooting for you with all our hearts for next time.
I'm so sorry Vanessa. I've been thinking about you a great deal. I wish this was a different outcome for you.
Posted by: thalia at May 13, 2006 09:50 PMVanessa..came here thru Thalia's blog. I just want to say I am so sorry...take good care of yourself.
Posted by: MoMo at May 13, 2006 09:20 PMWell fuck, that's just not fair. Sorry sweetie.
Posted by: Donna at May 13, 2006 07:19 PMI am so, so sorry, my thoughts are going out to you both right now, I hope you support each other through this very hard time.
Posted by: Sarah at May 13, 2006 06:58 PMOh, sweetie. I wish I could wrap you up in a big hug right now.
Posted by: Jennifer at May 13, 2006 01:47 PMI'm so very sorry, babe.
Posted by: Margi at May 13, 2006 06:44 AMMy love to both of you. I am so sorry.
Posted by: Meg at May 13, 2006 02:46 AMI am so sorry.
Posted by: nic at May 13, 2006 12:58 AMshit. not fair. NOT FAIR.
i hope you are ok. i am wishing you a light at the end of that dark place and i will be checking in on you. keep a sparkle of hope alive... this can still happen for you. (i know you're not ready to hear that right now, but i wanted to say it anyway.)
Posted by: UtRus at May 13, 2006 12:57 AMI am soo very sorry Vanessa, I have been hoping and sending so many good thoughts you way. I am sure you are devastated.
Posted by: cheryl at May 13, 2006 12:55 AMOh, no... My heart goes out to you both.
Posted by: a duck at May 12, 2006 11:42 PMI swear if I could get my hands on that embryo I would beat it up for you, because oh no it din't pass up the chance to have the best mother in the world! I don't THINK so! That ingrate! Who did that embryo think it was? TO HELL with that embryo! That embryo was a damned fool, that's what. The cheek of that embryo!
You and Aidan will make marvelous parents one day. In the meantime, what can I say besides "I am devastated for you?"
Oh, I know: Have a drink on me. I am so sorry. :(
Posted by: ilyka at May 12, 2006 10:49 PMI'm so, so sorry. :(
Posted by: Robber Barren at May 12, 2006 10:33 PMFuck. I'm sorry.
Posted by: MsPrufrock at May 12, 2006 07:30 PMI'm so sorry. :-( Thoughts are with you.
Posted by: Polichick at May 12, 2006 06:45 PMI'm sorry.
My heart hurts for you.
Oh no. I am so very sorry.
Posted by: Beth at May 12, 2006 06:28 PMi'm so sorry....
Posted by: caltechgirl at May 12, 2006 06:10 PMOh, so very sorry.
Posted by: April at May 12, 2006 05:33 PMI am so, so sorry!
Posted by: Heather at May 12, 2006 05:29 PMPetal - i am so sorry for both of you.
If there is anything i can say or do....(through i am sure there isnt)
abs xxxx
Posted by: abs at May 12, 2006 04:57 PMI am so so sorry. I am sitting at work crying into my screen. IVF stats are total effing bullshit. I want to hug you and scoop ice cream into your mouth until you are so full you don't remember why you are crying. My heart is breaking all over again.
Posted by: jenny at May 12, 2006 04:00 PMI don't know what to say. I'm sorry just doesn't cut it, although I am. I'm disappointed, but you are more so. I feel guilty. I'm sorry. :(
Posted by: Jen at May 12, 2006 04:00 PMI'm sorry.
Posted by: Carrie P at May 12, 2006 03:46 PMOh honey, I'm so sorry. This sucks so much.
Posted by: EJW at May 12, 2006 03:30 PMI am so, so sorry! So unfair!
Posted by: Heather at May 12, 2006 03:20 PMShit. I'm so, so sorry, sweetie. Life is so fucking unfair.
Posted by: Ornery at May 12, 2006 03:14 PMThis is just wrong. So so not fair. All my love to you and Aiden.
Posted by: Lindsay at May 12, 2006 03:02 PMGod, how disappointing. I'm adding my sorry to the pile.
Posted by: Laura GF at May 12, 2006 02:45 PMWell f*ck. I don't know what else to say, except that this just plain isn't fair. I'm thinking of you both.
Posted by: donna at May 12, 2006 02:24 PMI am so sorry! I hoped at least you would get through this with a big fat positive! I am so so so sorry!
Hugs!
Posted by: Nina at May 12, 2006 02:18 PMI'm so sorry - take good care of each other.
Posted by: lambchop at May 12, 2006 01:57 PMI'm so very sorry love.
Posted by: amy t. at May 12, 2006 01:32 PMOh sweetie, huge hugs for the both of you.
Posted by: Mia at May 12, 2006 01:30 PMOh, I'm so sorry.
Posted by: Beth at May 12, 2006 12:54 PM